Fellatio Project (Blow Jobs)

Thank you to Kinky Mia for letting us participate in the Fellatio Project.

Her questions . . .

Have I always enjoyed cock sucking or is it something that I had to develop?

Sucking cock was not something I enjoyed at first.  It was something I did to please a man.  I did it to be “bad” and seek out attention in the wrong ways.  (Insert the label of “fatherless daughter” here.)  It was not until later in life when I became comfortable in my sexuality that I enjoyed and looked forward to the act.

What did I not like about it in the beginning and how has that changed?

My past relationships were not of even proportion and I was not happy, just going through the motions.  How it has changed is now I am involved in a happy relationship and we enjoy giving each other pleasure.  Even though Hubby doesn’t ask for oral satisfaction, I do enjoy surprising him by going down.  It is even more enjoyable for me when I know he is turned on by the act.

Did my earlier experiences put me off in some way?

No, I don’t like to carry around unnecessary baggage.  Each and every day is a new beginning for me.  I don’t want Hubby (or myself) to live in a shadow of a bad experience of mine.

Who or what encouraged me in this area?

I guess I was encouraged by the images, ideas and idealizations that it was expected of women to suck cock.  It is what men enjoyed, so therefore a woman did it to make a man happy and satisfied.  But some men take it to the extreme.  I have been involved in relationships where the man would enjoy oral sex more often than vaginal sex.  Those relationships got old real quick and I would feel used and unloved.

Does the shape or type of the cock have an effect on how you feel about sucking it?

Funny question.  Yes (in the past) face to face with a small penis I would have silly comments going through my mind (I know it wasn’t nice of me).  I won’t go into large detail about past experiences,  but when hairs are longer than the penis, I think a man has a problem.

What tips do you have to control the gag reflex?

I would like to know more techniques myself.  The only way I can control my gag reflex is to have a pillow under my neck (tilting my head backward) and have Hubby crouched or kneeling above my neck and angling his manhood down my throat.  For some odd reason this is what works for me with no gag reflex.  The only way I can deep throat.

His questions . . .

Is this something you enjoy or are you ambivalent about?

I am probably in a very small minority of men in that I never experienced a blow job until I was in my 40’s. Seriously. When I finally did, I didn’t orgasm from it. It was just foreplay. I would imagine though that had I experienced oral pleasure as a teenager or young adult, I would have cum like crazy and it would have been over quick! The odd thing is, I find a hand job (with oil) to be very erotic and enjoyable. So no doubt my body and mind was trained early on to that sort of stimulation (yes, too much adolescent wanking!).

Do you have a favorite way of being sucked?

Having a woman’s lips and mouth pulling on my cock (as if stretching it out longer) is very pleasing. It also gives a tight sensation which is pleasurable. I think that sort of mimics the feel of a hand that is gripping my rod tightly too (which I like).

Do you like to be deep-throated?

I’m again probably odd but while the sensation of being deep-throated is great, I get concerned about gagging my sweetheart or causing her discomfort in the act. I’ve never gone crazy and just grabbed my wife’s head and forcibly face-fucked her. It goes against my grain as a lover but maybe one day the mood will strike us both.

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3 thoughts on “Fellatio Project (Blow Jobs)

  1. Thank you so much for participating in The Fellatio Project! I love how you have given both of your viewpoints on the subject which is very interesting to see!

    ~Mia~ xx

    • Thank you, we both had fun participating in The Fellatio Project. We look forward to participating in other memes and projects in the near future.

  2. It’s great how the two of you have given your views on this and also great that both of you can enjoy the experience.

    And I think I should try your way of deep throating. Sounds exciting!

    Rebel xox

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