Safe Sex Toys – Safe vs. Unsafe Materials

Safe Sex Toys In a previous post, we discussed unsafe sex toys and the materials that are often used in their manufacture. In contrast, this post will focus on safe sex toys and the materials that are ideally used along with the strengths and weaknesses of each. To help illustrate, I really like this gauge from…

Clit Flicker with Wireless Stimulator

I have a lot of cock rings (see pic) and I was looking for one that had a tongue or something shaped like a tongue that might hit my wife’s clit better. I stumbled across the Clit Flicker, made by California Exotic Novelties on the Pink Cherry website. It looked amusing, if nothing else. I really wanted…

Unsafe Sex Toys

Intimate Toys with a Very Un-Intimate Toxin    Ah, that new sex toy smell! No, wait . . .  Your toy smells?? Renee and I have been buying sex toys for years, but we didn’t learn about the dangers of phthalates (pronunced “THAL-ates”) and other toxins until this year. If you are new to the…

Pornography – Like Alcohol

[Revised February 7, 2014]   I’ve known something of a love-hate relationship with pornography since I was 12 years old when I discovered the first dirty-magazine that my older brother had hidden away. I still remember the rush of adrenaline and excitement. The women were curvy and gorgeous, and my heart went racing! In that era…

Review of The Female Orgasm Blueprint

Several years ago, I subscribed to a large number of newsletters and articles that provided sexual education. I love to learn, and I think having a mindset of “always-learning” is important. A few months before I met my new wife who co-authors this blog with me, I came across this one guy with a funny…

Nipples in her sleep – Wicked Wednesday

  I love Renee’s breasts. I love everything about them – – their size, the hue and tone of her skin, the color and look of her areolas, and how her nipples react to sensation. Her breasts fit my hand so wonderfully. I know most women hate that their boobs drop or droop, and they…

Confession – The hardest thing

The prompts for this week’s post asked for the hardest thing I confessed to someone.  You will be my captive audience with the confession I am going to make. I have never spoken about the incident before.  My reaction to the whole  occurrence has been silence, shame and embarrassment. About 11 or 12 years ago (before…

Fellatio Project (Blow Jobs)

Thank you to Kinky Mia for letting us participate in the Fellatio Project. Her questions . . . Have I always enjoyed cock sucking or is it something that I had to develop? Sucking cock was not something I enjoyed at first.  It was something I did to please a man.  I did it to…